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Kai Lewis, LMFT

Therapy & Workshops
for Queer, Transgender & Neurodiverse Populations

Therapy Offerings
Speaking Services
ADHD & ASD Structured Interviews
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Serving all of California, based in Orange County, California

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Affirming Therapy for All…

Welcome! I'm Kai (they/them)
​I am a neurodivergent AFAB transgender therapist focused on providing affirming care for all members of the LGBTQIA and neurodiverse communities. 

My speciality is working with the neurodiverse, transgender, nonbinary, & gender expansive communities, as well as sexuality & gender exploration, ethical non-monogamy, non-traditional relational & erotic orientations, among other queer identities (allies included!)

I also offer trauma informed EMDR therapy.

Services & Offerings

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    Therapy and Consultation

    Explore my therapy services including LGBTQIA+ focused individual, relational, and EMDR therapy

    Explore professional consultation with me

    Explore LGBTQ education sessions with me

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    Audience Engagements

    Explore my speaking presentations, trainings, authorships, and workshops

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    Transgender-specific Services

    Explore my trans-specific services including gender affirming care support letters and gender exploration therapy

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    Autism and ADHD Structured Interviews

    Explore ASD and ADHD diagnoses tailored to those historically missed by traditional assessments

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Areas of Focus:

As a Gender Specialist, my expertise lies in embodied gender and sexuality exploration in addition to neurodivergent (ASD/ADHD) support. I also offer EMDR therapy for trauma, including identity-based and religious traumas.

My Patients:

I work with individuals age 10+ as well as relational units including families, couples, and polycules.

Holding an LGBTQ+ or neurodivergent identity is not a requirement for patients I see, nor does it need to be the focus of our work together.

I hold and acknowledge the unique identities you have, providing an affirming space for our work together regardless of topic.

My Approach:

My approach is holistic—incorporating mind, body, spirit, and lifestyle.

I value assessing you as a unique and complex person in order to tailor your care, rather than force plans that aren't working.

I offer a client-centered and collaborative approach, allowing space for you to fully express who you are and who you want to be. 

Coming Soon: Courses

Check back soon for provider and community courses